When it comes to drugs, don't be afraid to communicate with your son or daughter, telling them how you feel.
Communication isn't just about you talking to your child though, it's also about
listening to your child and understanding where they're coming from.
Research shows that 3 out of 4 Irish people, don't have enough information, or have the wrong information,
about drugs (Source: Health Research Board).
So, before you bring up the subject with your child, do some homework about drugs yourself.
You can start by reading the info on drugs section on this website,
which will tell you about the most commonly used drugs here in Ireland.
Some parents feel that their children won't listen to their views. This isn't always the
case - most teenagers do care what their parents think, even if they do not show it.
You know your son or daughter best, so you'll know when it feels 'right' to talk to them about drugs.
Before you start
Decide what you want to say. What do you want them to do?
Try not to force the issue. A good time might be when you're clearing up after a meal,
or at the end of a TV programme.
Talk to them only when you're calm. Having a row or shouting isn't going to help.
Do listen with an open mind.
Don't use "why" - this will put them on the defensive. Use "how", "when", "what" or "where"
to get them talking.
Scare tactics won't work, but do say what you believe.
Do show you care and that you'll stick by them.
Focus on them - not the drugs.
Try not to preach.
When the time feels right, you're ready to talk, listen and understand.
